Community quarreling not quarreling quarreling not quarreling

Is an important part of the heat flashes not coming from quite different definitions about the Eve communion rules, goals, objectives, limits and so on ?

I’ve seen lots of examples where people find that somebody is going too far, with the somebody’s answer in the ‘you are going too far to say that, is honesty not welcome anymore in this community’ realm.

Different underlying definitions = different behavior.

Other examples abound on the interactions between the @team and the community. “That is not your business” - “oh yes it is” kind of posts and “the @team should manage their business in this or that way, hold responsible this or that supplier” kind of stuff.

Is there good reason tho exchange thoughts on this matter to come to a more general understanding about where the community - @team limits and responsibilities are?